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Shakti Sundari
- Jan 22
- 3 min
THE WOUNDED MAIDEN
When I was doing the first year of a psychodynamic couples therapy training, we read a lot of stuff by Freud et al. The basic premise...
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Shakti Sundari
- May 18, 2022
- 3 min
Shadow feminine - which one are you?
There can be a lot of blame and shame talk about men and their sexual shadow. And it's understandable, when there is a history of so much...
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Shakti Sundari
- May 13, 2022
- 2 min
The sovereign sexual woman code
I am a Sovereign Sexual Woman. I do not have to explain or defend my choices. I am not here to rescue, heal or save anybody. Nor do I...
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Shakti Sundari
- May 13, 2022
- 2 min
What does it mean to be a sovereign sexual woman?
Being a Sovereign Sexual Woman doesn’t mean you think about sex all the time, want sex all the time or are necessarily even sexually...
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Shakti Sundari
- May 13, 2022
- 2 min
Being a sovereign sexual woman
She doesn’t say “how could he do this to me?” But “why did I allow it? What belief or wounding within me is resonant with dis-respect?...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 23, 2022
- 2 min
Tantra isn't all about sex you know
There's a big misconception out there, that Tantra is all about sex. Which attracts some and repels others. In reality it's about...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 14, 2022
- 3 min
if you want better sex, you've gotta stop thinking about it
I got a pm yesterday from a man interested in my upcoming TANTRIC TEMPLE workshop (Saturday, 26th March, 2022, here in London if you're...
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Shakti Sundari
- Nov 8, 2021
- 3 min
Why do we avoid that which so nourishes us?
Women seem to have an infinite number of excuses as to why to put their pleasure and well-being last. It doesn't serve anybody.
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Shakti Sundari
- Sep 27, 2021
- 2 min
The Lie
The opening chapter in my forthcoming book RAPTURE: A Guide to Sexual & Spiritual Awakening for Women, is titled "Everything you've been...
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Shakti Sundari
- Sep 19, 2021
- 2 min
The 4 "p's" of pleasure
Want to know the secrets to ultimate sensual PLEASURE ? In my forthcoming book - RAPTURE: A Guide to Sexual & Spiritual Awakening for...
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Shakti Sundari
- Jul 7, 2021
- 2 min
EMOTIONAL ALCHEMY
For far too long, emotions have been wrapped in shame, denial and judgement. In the patriarchal belief system, which has dominated our...
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Shakti Sundari
- Jun 14, 2021
- 3 min
WHY HEALING THROUGH THE BODY IS ESSENTIAL IF YOU WANT TRUE & LASTING CHANGE
This morning a one-to-one client wrote to me: "I feel like something has really shifted. Amazing that we do all this work in our heads,...
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Shakti Sundari
- Jun 6, 2021
- 3 min
EVIL vs LIVE
When I was a young teen, I nicked my sister's copy of "The Exorcist". Bloody hell! I wish I hadn't, but I couldn't help myself once I'd...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 12, 2021
- 5 min
I want to be sexual, but I'm afraid to be
The Sarah Everard case has stirred up a lot of debate about men's sexual violence towards women and what is needed for women to feel...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 11, 2021
- 2 min
Blind spots & rose-tinted glasses
My theme right now is SAFETY. Feeling safe to own & embody your sexuality - fully. Feeling safe to relate. Feeling safe to be intimate....
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 9, 2021
- 3 min
The Sex-Heart Connection
When I first started dating, this is how it went: You liked someone. They liked you. You spent time together. You kissed and made out....
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 9, 2021
- 3 min
Safe to be sexual
As a young woman growing up in the UK, I learned that sex was a naughty secret, something "good girls" didn't do before marriage and yet...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 3, 2021
- 2 min
What do you need to feel safe?
My post on the Virgin/Whore split really created a stir. It came from a place of inspired passion. My best blogs always do. Where the...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 1, 2021
- 4 min
The Virgin/Whore Split
Oh God. Not this one again. But I have to. So one of the great things about having a daughter, is that I've been able to share all my...
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