PLEASURE IN MENOPAUSE
When I was mid puberty, I watched my Mum (who I much later figured out was peri-menopausal) have a nervous breakdown. In fact I was the...
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Shakti Sundari
- Oct 16
- 3 min
To be a pilgrim
On my 59th Birthday, on September 30th, 2023, I embarked on an 11-day pilgrimage to the way of Mary Magdalene in Southern France. This is...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 10
- 3 min
A not so "happy ending"?
Ejaculation/orgasm focussed sex breeds discontent. Read on to find out why.
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Shakti Sundari
- Jan 22
- 3 min
THE WOUNDED MAIDEN
When I was doing the first year of a psychodynamic couples therapy training, we read a lot of stuff by Freud et al. The basic premise...
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Shakti Sundari
- Jun 6, 2022
- 2 min
THE 3 TANTRIC KEYS: LOVE, SANCTITY & SURRENDER
I was meditating this morning on my best ever sexual experiences to-date. "To-date" being important to note, since I anticipate my...
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Shakti Sundari
- Jun 4, 2022
- 2 min
Sacred snakes of sensuality
Snakes have gotten a bad rap. In the Bible, of course, they are associated with sin and Satan. We have been taught to fear them. Just as...
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Shakti Sundari
- May 18, 2022
- 3 min
Shadow feminine - which one are you?
There can be a lot of blame and shame talk about men and their sexual shadow. And it's understandable, when there is a history of so much...
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Shakti Sundari
- May 13, 2022
- 2 min
What does it mean to be a sovereign sexual woman?
Being a Sovereign Sexual Woman doesn’t mean you think about sex all the time, want sex all the time or are necessarily even sexually...
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Shakti Sundari
- May 13, 2022
- 2 min
Being a sovereign sexual woman
She doesn’t say “how could he do this to me?” But “why did I allow it? What belief or wounding within me is resonant with dis-respect?...
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Shakti Sundari
- May 13, 2022
- 2 min
How your dating, relating & sexuality are related
Patriarchy teaches us to divide and separate. It's a belief system that disconnects us from what is organically inter-woven. Such as sex...
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Shakti Sundari
- Apr 19, 2022
- 3 min
From better sex to self-realisation
There are all kinds of interpretations and expressions of the tantric path. The most common one I encounter is the assumption that it's...
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Shakti Sundari
- Apr 7, 2022
- 2 min
Whole-istic sexuality
" Your sexuality is wholistic, encompassing your connection with all the interwoven, inseparable facets of your wondrous self and all...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 31, 2022
- 2 min
The fountain of youth
I was talking to a male friend earlier today. He's a meditation teacher, who's been devoted to his practice for at least 15 years. He's...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 23, 2022
- 2 min
Tantra isn't all about sex you know
There's a big misconception out there, that Tantra is all about sex. Which attracts some and repels others. In reality it's about...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 14, 2022
- 3 min
if you want better sex, you've gotta stop thinking about it
I got a pm yesterday from a man interested in my upcoming TANTRIC TEMPLE workshop (Saturday, 26th March, 2022, here in London if you're...
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 3, 2022
- 2 min
Polarity promotes pleasure
I shared a provocative post in my Living Shakti Awake FB group the other day about a man fucking his woman open. Some members loved it....
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Shakti Sundari
- Mar 3, 2022
- 2 min
THE MIND IS THE BIGGEST BARRIER TO PLEASURE
People often think, that when sex isn't as great as they'd love it to be, that there's something "wrong" with their genitals, their...
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Shakti Sundari
- Feb 21, 2022
- 3 min
The tantric bliss of body & no-mind
So, TANTRA, whether you're called to full self-realisation or just better sex, requires you to be IN YOUR BODY. Fully. But the thing is...
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Shakti Sundari
- Dec 20, 2021
- 3 min
Paradise Lost
What Milton's Paradise Lost has to be with the virgin/whore split.
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Shakti Sundari
- Nov 8, 2021
- 3 min
Why do we avoid that which so nourishes us?
Women seem to have an infinite number of excuses as to why to put their pleasure and well-being last. It doesn't serve anybody.
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