The other day I made a light-hearted post about how delicious it would be to go on a date with "a gorgeous, sexy, conscious man". All the...

What Milton's Paradise Lost has to be with the virgin/whore split.

"After doing that meditation on becoming lingam, I have so much more compassion and appreciation for the masculine." Said a female client...

Awakening for women isn't just about the juicy "feminine" stuff: we have to clear our body-mind of patriarchy.

The Sarah Everard case has stirred up a lot of debate about men's sexual violence towards women and what is needed for women to feel...

My theme right now is SAFETY. Feeling safe to own & embody your sexuality - fully. Feeling safe to relate. Feeling safe to be intimate....

When I first started dating, this is how it went: You liked someone. They liked you. You spent time together. You kissed and made out....

As a young woman growing up in the UK, I learned that sex was a naughty secret, something "good girls" didn't do before marriage and yet...

Believe it or not, I only learned about boundaries & consent in my first tantra workshop. At the tender age of 40 something. And it blew...

My post on the Virgin/Whore split really created a stir. It came from a place of inspired passion. My best blogs always do. Where the...

Oh God. Not this one again. But I have to. So one of the great things about having a daughter, is that I've been able to share all my...

So, on Valentine's Day just gone, my lover and I ended our relationship. It was a beautiful, conscious ending, full of love, respect and...

To find true love, we have to heal our wounds and be the one we are seeking.

As a Libran with Libra rising, you could say it's written in the stars for me to be a romantic obsessed with relationship. Even in my...

The hurt you are feeling is never about the man: it's about your unhealed wounds with the masculine. It's a wake-up call to heal & transform

My life has been defined by the quest to heal the wounds of patriarchy. What was once a curse, is now a blessing into wholeness.