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PLEASURE IN MENOPAUSE
When I was mid puberty, I watched my Mum (who I much later figured out was peri-menopausal) have a nervous breakdown. In fact I was the...
Shakti Sundari
Oct 30, 20232 min read
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Miraculous manifestation
My Magdalene Pilgrimage, Part 3 Since living in Avalon, I’ve noticed how direct and immediate the connection between thought and...
Shakti Sundari
Oct 27, 20235 min read
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Definition of a pilgrimage
MY MARY MAGDALENE PILGRIMAGE, PART 2 While it’s true to say I’d never given the word “pilgrimage” any thought before flying to...
Shakti Sundari
Oct 18, 20237 min read
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To be a pilgrim
On my 59th Birthday, on September 30th, 2023, I embarked on an 11-day pilgrimage to the way of Mary Magdalene in Southern France. This is...
Shakti Sundari
Oct 16, 20233 min read
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CRONEDOM
I'll be 59 in just over a couple of months. When I look at that figure it is literally just a number. There is no significance I feel I...
Shakti Sundari
Jul 26, 20233 min read
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Why didn't you just say no?!
On crossed boundaries, delayed response & why women don't report sexual harassment. The other day I wrote a post about a bizarre...
Shakti Sundari
Jul 5, 20237 min read
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Talking is taking
Hot on the heels of my Like A Pro training on Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent (the gold standard, when it comes to boundaries and...
Shakti Sundari
Jun 10, 20233 min read
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What if your wants were sacred?
On the Like A Pro intensive I recently completed, one of the things the trainers said at the start stuck with me: “This is a course about...
Shakti Sundari
May 27, 20233 min read
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Just say no
A significant part of the journey into adulthood involves increasingly individuating ourselves from our original sense of merger with our...
Shakti Sundari
May 16, 20234 min read
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A not so "happy ending"?
Ejaculation/orgasm focussed sex breeds discontent. Read on to find out why.
Shakti Sundari
Mar 10, 20233 min read
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The Body is pleasure & intelligence
This morning as I taught a private yoga class online, I found myself experiencing delicious orgasmic sensations. Through what? The simple...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 13, 20233 min read
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I told a man I like him & survived!!
Well, on the eve of Valentine's Day, I thought I'd share another tale from my Radical Honesty weekend. One of my reasons for attending...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 13, 20233 min read
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The greatest love affair of all
“How much we know and understand ourselves is critically important, but there is something even more essential to living a wholehearted...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 10, 20233 min read
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conscious communication, awakening & relationship
How apt to have arrived back from a weekend in Amsterdam at a Radical Honesty workshop with the fab duo Pete Jordan and Tuulia Syvänen,...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 8, 20233 min read
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Healing & preventing narcissistic abuse
I I was sharing with some beautiful friends yesterday about a toxic "relationship" I was in - 2016-17 - with a narcissist. They asked me...
Shakti Sundari
Jan 24, 20232 min read
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THE WOUNDED MAIDEN
When I was doing the first year of a psychodynamic couples therapy training, we read a lot of stuff by Freud et al. The basic premise...
Shakti Sundari
Jan 22, 20233 min read
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The illumination of shadow-work
"It's all about the shadow-work ultimately isn't it?" he said. Truth be told, I didn't really know what he meant. But he was darkly...
Shakti Sundari
Jan 7, 20233 min read
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THE 3 TANTRIC KEYS: LOVE, SANCTITY & SURRENDER
I was meditating this morning on my best ever sexual experiences to-date. "To-date" being important to note, since I anticipate my...
Shakti Sundari
Jun 6, 20222 min read
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Healthily selfish
Let's talk about being selfish. In my own journey of healing and personal growth, I began to recognise, that what I thought was "selfish"...
Shakti Sundari
Jun 4, 20222 min read
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Sacred snakes of sensuality
Snakes have gotten a bad rap. In the Bible, of course, they are associated with sin and Satan. We have been taught to fear them. Just as...
Shakti Sundari
Jun 4, 20222 min read
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