“Anger does not disappear as we evolve and in fact may become even more fiery, but it burns more and more cleanly, serving the well-being...

So my last blog, about my experience with a narcissist, caused quite a stir. I received scores of messages – both public and private –...

When I recently wrote a Facebook post about hoovering, a few people wondered what I was on about. Well, today I’m going to explain what...

When we wake, the sky is bright all around us, the loud “HOOS!” of a nearby Osho meditation fill the air and footsteps are crunching...

What do you think of when I mention the word "tantra"? Go on... be honest. For many, the immediate association is with sex, perhaps...

OK, so here’s a confession you might not have heard too often: I left my first husband because we only had sex in 3 positions. Now I know...

Enjoy the audio version of Parts 1-4 of The Flow Artist; my tantric counter-narrative to Cat Person. Note: The Flow Artist is my tantric...

I’m excited. Just as much, I realise now, at the prospect of sleeping under canvas, as together with this beautiful man. The relief I...

Whereas after our first dance, I thought nothing of it, now Peder was in my awareness. It’s not that I felt attachment or the need to...

Sharing a dorm with 20 other women doesn’t make for a very restful experience. Having been amongst the last dregs of arrivals, I’ve...

She eyed me with a sense of familiarity and undisguised curiosity that I couldn’t help but notice. “Are you Shakti?” she asked. “Yes! ...

I was discussing this recently with a female client, who did not feel feminine and wanted to connect more fully with her Feminine...

Are you dating a blamer & complainer? Beware ! I should have known better. After all, I know that how we speak about others usually says...

This is a beautiful picture isn't it? It was taken by my former Beloved a little under a year ago on an idyllic "private" beach on the...

When I broke up with my Beloved and spoke openly about my pain, I was surprised by one comment from a friend (and fellow tantra teacher)...

Art by Ines Hofe “You see, ecstasy is the natural human state, and the obstacles we create to ecstasy are part of a dictatorial state our...

Me too... my take on it.... When I was about 8, an old man flashed at me and my younger male cousin in the park: the man had his penis in...

I’m a radiant woman. I teach others how to access their ecstatic aliveness. I’m a Priestess of Love and Sacred Sexuality. I love to...

If you’re surprised by the fact that I’ve put terror and love into the same sentence, then good - and welcome to my latest blog ! Some...

So many people I meet express an interest in knowing more about tantra or comment upon my radiance and positive vital energy. “I want...