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The greatest love affair of all
“How much we know and understand ourselves is critically important, but there is something even more essential to living a wholehearted...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 10, 20233 min read


The tantric bliss of body & no-mind
So, TANTRA, whether you're called to full self-realisation or just better sex, requires you to be IN YOUR BODY. Fully. But the thing is...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 21, 20223 min read


Dying to the new
1/1/22 Loving that number ! Looking at my phone screen this morning and seeing the digit "1" and the red dot at the very start of a new...
Shakti Sundari
Jan 1, 20222 min read


Tantric sexuality has made me a better mum
The more I've awakened sexually & spiritually, the better Mum I've become. The more I've made space for and invested in my own pleasure,...
Shakti Sundari
Oct 21, 20211 min read


DREAMS REALLY DO COME TRUE
You see those vision boards behind me in that picture? Well, tucked away between all those colourful images are two words: "writer" and...
Shakti Sundari
Oct 10, 20212 min read


The Lie
The opening chapter in my forthcoming book RAPTURE: A Guide to Sexual & Spiritual Awakening for Women, is titled "Everything you've been...
Shakti Sundari
Sep 27, 20212 min read


The nectar of being
As I continue my recovery from covid, one of the impacts I'm aware of is the impairment of 3 of my key senses: - taste - smell - hearing...
Shakti Sundari
Sep 15, 20211 min read


Women uphold patriarchy too
Awakening for women isn't just about the juicy "feminine" stuff: we have to clear our body-mind of patriarchy.
Shakti Sundari
Aug 10, 20212 min read


WHY HEALING THROUGH THE BODY IS ESSENTIAL IF YOU WANT TRUE & LASTING CHANGE
This morning a one-to-one client wrote to me: "I feel like something has really shifted. Amazing that we do all this work in our heads,...
Shakti Sundari
Jun 14, 20213 min read


EVIL vs LIVE
When I was a young teen, I nicked my sister's copy of "The Exorcist". Bloody hell! I wish I hadn't, but I couldn't help myself once I'd...
Shakti Sundari
Jun 6, 20213 min read


I want to be sexual, but I'm afraid to be
The Sarah Everard case has stirred up a lot of debate about men's sexual violence towards women and what is needed for women to feel...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 12, 20215 min read


Blind spots & rose-tinted glasses
My theme right now is SAFETY. Feeling safe to own & embody your sexuality - fully. Feeling safe to relate. Feeling safe to be intimate....
Shakti Sundari
Mar 11, 20212 min read


The Sex-Heart Connection
When I first started dating, this is how it went: You liked someone. They liked you. You spent time together. You kissed and made out....
Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read


Safe to be sexual
As a young woman growing up in the UK, I learned that sex was a naughty secret, something "good girls" didn't do before marriage and yet...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read


Boundaries & Consent
Believe it or not, I only learned about boundaries & consent in my first tantra workshop. At the tender age of 40 something. And it blew...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 4, 20212 min read


What do you need to feel safe?
My post on the Virgin/Whore split really created a stir. It came from a place of inspired passion. My best blogs always do. Where the...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 3, 20212 min read


The Virgin/Whore Split
Oh God. Not this one again. But I have to. So one of the great things about having a daughter, is that I've been able to share all my...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 1, 20214 min read


Stop Comparing !
I'm blessed to do what I love and be guided to show up in the world as I do. Because of my public presence and work, I am constantly...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 28, 20213 min read


Already Enough
So, on Valentine's Day just gone, my lover and I ended our relationship. It was a beautiful, conscious ending, full of love, respect and...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 18, 20213 min read


We are all walking one another home
On last Thursday's Full Moon, I had a total melt-down. It had been building for a while. A slow build, like a pressure cooker. And on...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 5, 20214 min read
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