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Tantra isn't all about sex you know
There's a big misconception out there, that Tantra is all about sex. Which attracts some and repels others. In reality it's about...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 23, 20222 min read


if you want better sex, you've gotta stop thinking about it
I got a pm yesterday from a man interested in my upcoming TANTRIC TEMPLE workshop (Saturday, 26th March, 2022, here in London if you're...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 14, 20223 min read


Polarity promotes pleasure
I shared a provocative post in my Living Shakti Awake FB group the other day about a man fucking his woman open. Some members loved it....
Shakti Sundari
Mar 3, 20222 min read


What is presence?
So on the back of a very popular post about how looks are not the most important thing for me in attraction, I've been asked by a man to...
Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20212 min read


Your looks are almost last on my list
The other day I made a light-hearted post about how delicious it would be to go on a date with "a gorgeous, sexy, conscious man". All the...
Shakti Sundari
Dec 20, 20213 min read


On loving up the masculine
"After doing that meditation on becoming lingam, I have so much more compassion and appreciation for the masculine." Said a female client...
Shakti Sundari
Aug 10, 20213 min read


The Sex-Heart Connection
When I first started dating, this is how it went: You liked someone. They liked you. You spent time together. You kissed and made out....
Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read


Safe to be sexual
As a young woman growing up in the UK, I learned that sex was a naughty secret, something "good girls" didn't do before marriage and yet...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 9, 20213 min read


The Virgin/Whore Split
Oh God. Not this one again. But I have to. So one of the great things about having a daughter, is that I've been able to share all my...
Shakti Sundari
Mar 1, 20214 min read


Already Enough
So, on Valentine's Day just gone, my lover and I ended our relationship. It was a beautiful, conscious ending, full of love, respect and...
Shakti Sundari
Feb 18, 20213 min read


The Love Journey
To find true love, we have to heal our wounds and be the one we are seeking.
Shakti Sundari
Jan 28, 20215 min read


The only way out is in
When something feels uncomfortable or confronting, it's natural to seek relief. Common relief mechanisms include: * getting busy doing...
Shakti Sundari
Jan 20, 20213 min read


Balancing Being & Doing
Since my son started working, he's made a few comments about me not working as much as he is. To him, working means DOING stuff.
Shakti Sundari
Jan 13, 20212 min read


It's never about the man
The hurt you are feeling is never about the man: it's about your unhealed wounds with the masculine. It's a wake-up call to heal & transform
Shakti Sundari
Dec 17, 20203 min read


Making Peace with Man
My life has been defined by the quest to heal the wounds of patriarchy. What was once a curse, is now a blessing into wholeness.
Shakti Sundari
Dec 6, 20203 min read


The Father Wound
So long as I was a sweet little girl: pretty, smaller, trusting, compliant - all was well. The minute my woman energy began downloading,...
Shakti Sundari
Nov 13, 20203 min read


Meeting the masculine 2
The wounds of our fathers, the conditioning of our society teach women to look outside themselves for love and completion.
Shakti Sundari
Nov 9, 20202 min read


Meeting the Masculine
The relationship women have with their inner masculine will be reflected in their outer relationship with men.
Shakti Sundari
Nov 1, 20203 min read
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